Wednesday, May 6, 2015

"The Marks of a Godly Mother" - Doug Rehberg

I have a friend who retired from the pastoral ministry over 20 years ago. When asked how difficult the transition was he smiled and said, “Quite easy. Now I don’t have to be everybody’s mother.”

It is said that early in the Revolutionary War, George Washington sent one of his officers to requisition horses from the local landowners. Calling at an old country mansion, the officer was received by the elderly mistress of the house. “Madam, I have come to claim your horses in the name of the government,” he began. “On whose orders?” demanded the woman sternly. “On the orders of General George Washington, the Commander in Chief of the American Army,” replied the officer. The old lady smiled. “You go back and tell General George Washington that his mother says he cannot have her horses.”
Now, whether it’s administering justice or mercy, the job of a mother is never-ending. In fact, it’s striking to see how frequently the Lord refers to Himself through maternal images. (See Ruth 2:12, Psalm 91:4, Matthew 23:37, Hosea 13:8, Deuteronomy 32:10-11, Isaiah 42:14, Isaiah 49:15, Isaiah 66:13). Even the name El-Shaddai speaks of a God who possesses the nurturing features of a mother. In fact, such godly images are often reflected in some of the most important biblical characters we know, like Paul.
When you come to Paul’s second letter to Timothy, you come to a letter that’s been described by many as the most intimate, tender letter that Paul ever writes. Some say this is because Paul’s heart is drawn to Timothy like no other human being. Others say it’s because he’s about to be executed in Rome (his third imprisonment), and he’s full of nostalgia. Others say that Paul is an old man (66), and like many older men he’s getting a little more emotional in his old age. And while there may be some credibility to some of these views, what’s most obvious from Paul’s words is that Timothy is in distress. Timothy’s mentor and guide is facing impending death. Several years earlier Timothy had been thrust into a position he would never have chosen on his own. He now has his own ministry independent of Paul’s presence and assistance, and he’s full of self-doubt. So what does Paul do? Does he excoriate him? Does he tell him to buck up and play the man? Does he use himself as an example of what real suffering looks like? No, actually he offers some of the most tender, insightful counsel found in Scripture.
Years ago I preached out of Sunday’s text, II Timothy 1:1-7, a message entitled “Mother Paul”. This Mother’s Day we revisit the same text and see many fresh insights in a message entitled “The Marks of a Godly Mother.” In preparation for Sunday’s study you may wish to consider the following:

1.      Re-read Proverbs 22:1-6.

2.      What is the writer saying about how to raise a child? (v. 6)

3.      Read I Timothy 4:12. How much younger is Timothy than Paul?

4.      How old was Timothy when he was converted in Lystra?

5.      What does Paul mean when he says he has a clear conscience? (v. 3)

6.      What is the connection between Timothy’s tears and Paul’s joy?

7.      Why does Paul cite Timothy’s mother and grandmother? (v. 5)

8.      What do you think are the nature of Paul’s prayers in verse 3?

9.      How do you see Paul pointing to the sovereign providence of God here?

10.  What is the goal of Christian parenthood?

See you Sunday! Happy Mother’s Day!